Thank you for writing this! I just published something on love too that touches on the idea of resentment by way of betrayal: https://moviewise.substack.com/p/what-is-love

It occurs to me that forgiveness is the ultimate demonstration of love. Of course you can't expect people to be perfect and perfectly lovable all the time. We are all imperfect, fallible, and we make mistakes to boot!

We have to forgive ourselves and each other for our fallibilities, otherwise we create an endless chain of pain and suffering, which can be stopped simply by letting go—forgiving, and letting go.

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